'Everybody's got a plan until you're punched in the face' - Mike Tyson (allegedly)
And we're gonna get punched in the face - perhaps not literally but the blows will come, of that there's no doubt.
So I guess it becomes all about how we take the punches and respond.
Roll with them.
Bend to them.
Like trees in a storm, bending but unbroken.
And build in some flexibility to your goals - the twists of nature, of fate, those things outside our influence and control inevitably come into play.
That is resilience.