When you fail or feel like a failure.
When we think we're 'no good' in a particular situation, at a particularly subject or task.
Sometimes we're even told we're no good.
These then become the stories we tell ourselves about ourselves.
And we start to believe them and in turn develop a 'learned helplessness'.
We become skilled at living out these stories, acting out the 'helpless role' when we are faced with that situation again.
Until we give ourselves permission to change our story.
To act differently.
To act out of character.
(from Derren Brown's 'Happy')